Most humans can't. [ It is a sad possibility for most elves- and for all that were taken in by the Crows. Such is life. ] Truly? More for reading and learning what seems appealing, fuel for one's fantasies. There are some things you can do on your own but, like most kinds of sex, I find it is done best with a skilled partner.
I wasn't orphaned in the alienage long enough, so no.
I suppose books make better fuel for fantasies that desire fulfilment, I cannot imagine there is an elegant way to ask your partner where they stand on penis plugs and if that's something they would be willing to do. As an example.
It is not even so simple a thing as being an orphan in an alienage. I was raised in a brothel by whores and was in no danger of much of what I learned in the Crows. Now the theory of sex was something I learned early for practicality's sake, but it differs wildly from the truth of such things.
[ They'd been good to him- as much as they could be. As much as anyone in Antiva could be to an orphan. ]
Well one can always drop it casually into a conversation and see how such things go. Another is to outline something you would like to see or try in the framing of describing a fantasy.
[It's not pity, pity was like having someone spit on your cheek. He'd witnessed plenty of coerced encounters as a child that tainted his own ideas and for a long time he simply kept himself to himself. Beyond that he simply didn't know how to respond.]
You are not without your charms, Michel, you are perfectly capable of finding someone should you put your mind to it. But this is...edging into things I was hoping to avoid.
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I suppose books make better fuel for fantasies that desire fulfilment, I cannot imagine there is an elegant way to ask your partner where they stand on penis plugs and if that's something they would be willing to do. As an example.
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[ They'd been good to him- as much as they could be. As much as anyone in Antiva could be to an orphan. ]
Well one can always drop it casually into a conversation and see how such things go. Another is to outline something you would like to see or try in the framing of describing a fantasy.
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[It's not pity, pity was like having someone spit on your cheek. He'd witnessed plenty of coerced encounters as a child that tainted his own ideas and for a long time he simply kept himself to himself. Beyond that he simply didn't know how to respond.]
I think it's a moot point really.
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[ Which is sex. Huzzah. ]
I suppose for the time being, it is.
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