"So long as you are handling it safely and without actually harming yourself- that is why I stepped in at first- there is nothing wrong. Finding someone that can help without doing lasting harm or any harm at all? Is difficult." Tricky in so many ways- another reason he stepped in. He understood. Perhaps he ought to care more- perhaps he ought to be more considerate-

But it is not normally his way. But- Cade is important to Alistair. He will...attempt these tings. "Would you like to arrange something?"