It is not even so simple a thing as being an orphan in an alienage. I was raised in a brothel by whores and was in no danger of much of what I learned in the Crows. Now the theory of sex was something I learned early for practicality's sake, but it differs wildly from the truth of such things.

[ They'd been good to him- as much as they could be. As much as anyone in Antiva could be to an orphan. ]

Well one can always drop it casually into a conversation and see how such things go. Another is to outline something you would like to see or try in the framing of describing a fantasy.