Traveling to far off exotic places, meeting interesting people-

But yes, as we were saying- I am many kinds of a bastard, but this? Is not something lightly done. I only insisted that you tell him so I would not have to do so. Would I tell him? Yes. Eventually. When I found a good moment to do so- afterward he'd be more upset with both of us for saying nothing. This takes most of the weight out of my hands, but I am still at fault for saying nothing.

And for wandering about while ill.