Traveling to far off exotic places, meeting interesting people-

I cannot speak on the subject of mothers- mine died giving birth to me; or so I am told. [ Easy, offhand, like it is nothing. And in the face of this? It is terribly little. ] But you are a woman grown, Beleth. A young one to be certain, but a woman none the less. It is not a question of proving her right or wrong, of what is right for the Dalish.

It is a question of what is right for you. What would you do with your life had you no obligations?